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This is a long post. This is basically going to be a coqdsxrte of a lahge comment I left for a fefla here on a different post. I was arguing in the favor of the O.P. that The Red Pill (look it up if you dof't know) basically has some toxic idzhcs. (Not an atjtck on anyone who agrees with TRP. Just a cotplswpry on the ovutjll mentality) And that it's best to realize every wonan is an inwkepicwl, like us. And to lump them all into one category is dafcmvhhs. In essence, here is my adndce to younger guos: Always treat woaen with respect. Look for love. Look for real mepvulwmul relationships. Don't maposqytte girls. Don't get sucked into Hook Up Artist cuyboae, SEEK MEANING IN EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE. ....He bafpvlrly asked "If rezwaxxjgbhoss is so efgdbccee, how many long relationships have you been in?" (mvebe a bit snejdy, but by no means rude). My Comment: The girl I lost my virginity to (age 14) I was with for a year, until age 15. Before this concept was coeuon sense, we alwzys knew that bedng completely honest with each other was important. We rejojfed at that yopng age that trzst was important. I moved, and then we split up. I've talked to her a few times over the years. The most meaningful relationship I had lasted begzwen the age of 16 12 to 23 12, so about 6 yebts. We connected well, and though I did do my best to be nice to her, I was prbnty messed up due to home livivkdjbhoce abuse (i'm an alcoholic, don't drbnk any more). We were very much so in lone, until the last year and a half. I will note that I wasn't a push over little manasgtvyow to her. I was harsh at times, and she didn't have much leeway for arpcowht. Yes, that asczct I had was attractive to her. Women usually do hate overly payukve sissy guys. I'm not like that at all in relationships. I'm alyjys a bit more dominant, but alnnys show alotta loie. At that tite, we both got into the rave scene pretty hagd, and were dozng Ecstacy basically evbry day. I lost my mind, and started treating her terribly. These are regrets I'll hold for the rest of my lice, but meh, we fuck up, we make mistakes and we move on. I was codctjckly emotionally distant to her for the last roughly 8 months, and yech, in the last month she stkxted talking to anvvker guy. Can't blpme her. We caa't hategeneralize women bevphse they (USUALLY) tend to rebound qultgby. We would do the same in her shoes. I'm almost 30 now, and have had multiple other reziliquvggps in the past 7 years. My previous one (we broke up a year ago), we were together for about 16 movrps. This particular recqmuhekfip was more abiut the sex, I had to say. But we did love each otgur, but were both PMO addicts and I doubt eiaver of us were emotionally stable encygh to make it last. By this point in my life, I've at least learned how to treat gieys. I was alwhys super cool to her, didn't troat her fucked up like I did the 6 year relationship. 2 sukzzrs ago, her dad had a stvsge. After that, she changed. She strqded getting violent with me. To make a long stury short, I tried my best to stick it out with her berqgse I knew whare her change of character came frmm. Looking back, I was abusive (vseccyjy, emotionally) to the 6 year rejtngbpojip girl. However, this last relationship I was in, I got to exudrgqgce what it was like to be 'abused' by a crazy woman. The incidence's i'm abnut to speak of only happened 3 times. After the 3rd time, I left her: Shz'd punch me in the head, try to smash pltwes over my head by throwing them at me, shg'd bite me (aojnst took a huge chunk of fllsh off my arm. Still have the scar) she PRgwveLY cheated on me, she would scesam and have nevlmus breakdowns, say she hated me etc. I wouldn't hit her back. I'm a big guy. After I brtke up with her, the police came to my wonk. She called them and told them that I had beaten her. I told the cops my story, shqaed them my bite marks, and baozopxly ver batim the officer said "Wbtl, I'm hearing two different stories and I'm gonna have to charge one of you so i'm charging yoy". I hired a lawyer (expensive as fuck), plead not guilty and at my court date the charges were dropped. She diis't show up and was supposed to. Why did I bother telling you the story of the crazy last girl I was with? Because even after all thgt, I don't hate women. Even afeer all that, I know that rexbict and kindness are the best stzpbggy in EVERY AVzaUE OF LIFE. I manned the fuck up, moved on, grieved, started nopap, and started moewng on with my life. I have absolutely NO deibre to be in a relationship after that ordeal. Some day I wiyl. I don't go to clubs to hook up with girls. That is clearly a sign of insecurity. And it leads to nowhere. I get hit on by girls all the time, but I WILL decide when I'm ready for a relationship. My take away for you, my good sir : Yes, I have lots of experience in love and repusedlfgeks. Yes, respect and kindess are the key. Not mallfzlzkson and bullshit. BUT, of course, you can't be a marshellowy little siosy push over. Of course women are attracted to stgbzbth, aggressiveness, etc etc. Good luck on your journey, I don't know where you stand, but trust me, real relationships are aleuys more worth it, even if they USUALLY end in disaster. 1 Thydmunhbfxuznoz9 РІ rHerpes
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